Monday, December 27, 2010
New Years 2011 Still Standing SONNYFAYE JONES: Blending
Dear World
I hope this Blog finds you healthy, wealthy, and wise. Wise, it's a good way to start the New Year with the word WISE. Wisdom is a word but the word should be change into money. I swear, the word wisdom should feel, and smell, and look like a hundred dollar bill. I would have been a wealthy women if every time I made a bad decision, and said something Stupid. Example, I say some dumb ass stuff to someone, but before I say it, someone hands me some wisdom money. The Wisdom money makes me stop and think, I'm about to speak without thinking. Will my mouth write a check my ass can't cash. In the long run will this cost me more! Now, I have a hundred dollars going into my pocket,and putting money in my pocket, instantly made me shut up and listen. I know this is an extreme example but I'm just saying the use of wisdom needs to be more visible,and respected as cash.
My friend who I love dearly, is like myself in a marriage where children, are part of the matrimony.
There was an affair between my friend, and she ended up with the man of her dreams. The divorce became final and the children started to visit their father with his new family which was my friend. It was at least 15 years later when the mother and wife of my friends man moved out,and sold the lakeside home. As the mother put it, her children were lazy, and had stressed her out. She felt she had raised the kids by herself and depression had become a way of life. The mother decided to sell the house and have another chance at life. You know, try and get back whatever it was you lost.
When the son moved in, my friend tried to make the young man feel good. She wanted no hard feeling, and she felt as if she owed the young man an apology for his life. Now this is what really happened. The young man like to smoke Marijuana and he had a nice bowl, a one hitter. My friend called herself trying to make amens, she said let me have a pull. Worse mistake ever, first of all my friend can not handle this strong medical marijuana. That smoke hit that stupid bitch in the head...OMG she went to telling this Young Man how she fell in love with his father, how he was so strong, and how she didn't mean to hurt his mother. And she didn't realize what a nice person his mother was. And the fact the young mans mother was white, now she understood she was a women first. I just sat with my mouth wide the hell open, and I told her "I'm gonna Blog this dumb stuff. And pray don't another women every make a mistake like this. WoWee!"
When the young man started crying real tears dripping from his chin. My friends words to me were "OH SHIT...I DONE FUCKED UP!" She tried her best to console the young man. My friend tried to explain "I just wanted us to have a fresh start. I just wanted us to blend." My friend finally took her drunk, too high ass to bed. And my friend, she politely told me she was scared to go to sleep that night. And I said, why pray tell?
"Girl, I thought he was going to kill my black Ass!" I quess she thought the young man was going say it's all good now. I forgive you for fucking up my life bitch. Just hold the smoke longer. Whatever!
Rule number 1 for blending family. What happen yesterday is over, you can't rewind life, nor can you redo life. Therefore, when you decide to have an affair please believe, you will have guilt issue. I don't care how much you love the person, or how fine, or how much money, or you feel you just can't live without them.Guilt will wait to show you it's ugly face...and it's face you'll never see. But you will certainly feel the question, why did I, is God going to punish me, can I be forgiven for destroying, or making someone else life hell.
Now, the young man did tell my friend this before she thought she might die. " I'm glade you told me that. Because I never knew this shit. I just was always told that you were my step mother,and I'm too respect you. Man, when I think about the way things could have been. I don't know how I feel now...I can't say. I respect you for letting me know the truth. But don't tell my Dad that we had this talk!"
When my friend said, she wished someone, or something, could have reminded her not to speak on such a delicate topic. Only if she had of stayed in a parents place, and not get HIGH with the young man. And only, if she had of remember that a person wrong doing can only be settled between yourself, and a Higher Power!. I told my friend that prayer is the only answer to sooth the sting of her words. I also told my friend keep your ass in your lane...and if they don't ask don't tell. I also told her whenever you think you must speak on a subject ask the Most High for some wisdom money to spend wisely.
And please remember...the grass is always greener over septic tank. I'm Sonnyfaye Jones wait to you read what happens next!
I hope this Blog finds you healthy, wealthy, and wise. Wise, it's a good way to start the New Year with the word WISE. Wisdom is a word but the word should be change into money. I swear, the word wisdom should feel, and smell, and look like a hundred dollar bill. I would have been a wealthy women if every time I made a bad decision, and said something Stupid. Example, I say some dumb ass stuff to someone, but before I say it, someone hands me some wisdom money. The Wisdom money makes me stop and think, I'm about to speak without thinking. Will my mouth write a check my ass can't cash. In the long run will this cost me more! Now, I have a hundred dollars going into my pocket,and putting money in my pocket, instantly made me shut up and listen. I know this is an extreme example but I'm just saying the use of wisdom needs to be more visible,and respected as cash.
My friend who I love dearly, is like myself in a marriage where children, are part of the matrimony.
There was an affair between my friend, and she ended up with the man of her dreams. The divorce became final and the children started to visit their father with his new family which was my friend. It was at least 15 years later when the mother and wife of my friends man moved out,and sold the lakeside home. As the mother put it, her children were lazy, and had stressed her out. She felt she had raised the kids by herself and depression had become a way of life. The mother decided to sell the house and have another chance at life. You know, try and get back whatever it was you lost.
When the son moved in, my friend tried to make the young man feel good. She wanted no hard feeling, and she felt as if she owed the young man an apology for his life. Now this is what really happened. The young man like to smoke Marijuana and he had a nice bowl, a one hitter. My friend called herself trying to make amens, she said let me have a pull. Worse mistake ever, first of all my friend can not handle this strong medical marijuana. That smoke hit that stupid bitch in the head...OMG she went to telling this Young Man how she fell in love with his father, how he was so strong, and how she didn't mean to hurt his mother. And she didn't realize what a nice person his mother was. And the fact the young mans mother was white, now she understood she was a women first. I just sat with my mouth wide the hell open, and I told her "I'm gonna Blog this dumb stuff. And pray don't another women every make a mistake like this. WoWee!"
When the young man started crying real tears dripping from his chin. My friends words to me were "OH SHIT...I DONE FUCKED UP!" She tried her best to console the young man. My friend tried to explain "I just wanted us to have a fresh start. I just wanted us to blend." My friend finally took her drunk, too high ass to bed. And my friend, she politely told me she was scared to go to sleep that night. And I said, why pray tell?
"Girl, I thought he was going to kill my black Ass!" I quess she thought the young man was going say it's all good now. I forgive you for fucking up my life bitch. Just hold the smoke longer. Whatever!
Rule number 1 for blending family. What happen yesterday is over, you can't rewind life, nor can you redo life. Therefore, when you decide to have an affair please believe, you will have guilt issue. I don't care how much you love the person, or how fine, or how much money, or you feel you just can't live without them.Guilt will wait to show you it's ugly face...and it's face you'll never see. But you will certainly feel the question, why did I, is God going to punish me, can I be forgiven for destroying, or making someone else life hell.
Now, the young man did tell my friend this before she thought she might die. " I'm glade you told me that. Because I never knew this shit. I just was always told that you were my step mother,and I'm too respect you. Man, when I think about the way things could have been. I don't know how I feel now...I can't say. I respect you for letting me know the truth. But don't tell my Dad that we had this talk!"
When my friend said, she wished someone, or something, could have reminded her not to speak on such a delicate topic. Only if she had of stayed in a parents place, and not get HIGH with the young man. And only, if she had of remember that a person wrong doing can only be settled between yourself, and a Higher Power!. I told my friend that prayer is the only answer to sooth the sting of her words. I also told my friend keep your ass in your lane...and if they don't ask don't tell. I also told her whenever you think you must speak on a subject ask the Most High for some wisdom money to spend wisely.
And please remember...the grass is always greener over septic tank. I'm Sonnyfaye Jones wait to you read what happens next!
Sunday, December 26, 2010
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